The nature of your response at the early stages of the harassment is crucial
You should only tolerate online harassment for a very short period of time as your harasser might just go away and you will never hear from him or her again. Your online harasser might get bored or something might happen in their life, which will change their mindset altogether. However, don't be so hopeful and if the harassment persists, take control of the situation as quickly as you can. If you don't, you will find very quickly that your online harasser has taken over your life.
What is online harassment
If you are feeling harassed by any online activity that is directed at you or your business, this is online harassment. Understanding online harassment is often the first step in winning the battle against your harasser. For harassment to be committed, there must be a 'course of conduct' (i.e. two or more related occurrences). The posts online do not necessarily have to be threatening in nature, but must be oppressive and need to have caused some alarm or distress.
Why online harassment is often not taken as seriously as it should
Often you will find tht online harassment is not being taken a seriously as it should. People might not understand why you feel harassed by something which is written on the internet. The reality is that online harassment and offline harassment are the same thing and in terms of the law, they should both be treated the same way.
However, the reality is that the authorities tend to treat harassment which occurs offline more seriously than harassment which occurs online. The reason for this is that often the police do not understand online harassment and how the internet works and as a result police officers often tell victims of online harassment that unless there was a physical aspect to the harassment, the police cannot help. Many victims of online harassment, don’t know whether to plead with their harasser to stop harassing them although in most cases, you can predict how an online harasser will react to such request.
"I've had torment all my life. Bullying for me has been horrendous and it took too long. I must say it has been hard for me to really speak up and even my own parents didn't actually realise how bad it was because I kept it to myself."
Should you try and engage with you online harasser
You should never engage with your harasser. If you engage, it is likely that this will negate an element of the harassment, which often involves unwanted contact. Because of the lack of understanding of online harassment by the police, victims of online harassment often are left unaware of what areas of law are being broken by their harasser, which means they don’t know what can be done to stop the harassment. They only know how they feel. Often hopeless and isolated, in the same way that victims of offline harassment feel.
What can the police do about harassment
Public organisations that are meant to help victims of online harassment, can’t or don’t, for whatever reason. Victims of online harassment are often told that there are no areas of law being broken when they report the online harassment to the police. Possibly understandable, due to the complexities of Internet Law cases and the global reach of the internet. Possibly understandable due to the lack of knowledge or education by front desk police officers but not understandable to the victims. Rejection by those that you turn to for help can push you lower.
What is the best way to use the law to stop online harassment
You may be considering private prosecution for online harassment but are unsure about what is involved. You may wonder if you can obtain an urgent or interim injunction to stop the publication of something online that is impending. There are other options too, such as asking a lawyer to engage with your harasser on your behalf. This often can be a practical solution to ensure that your harasser is starting to become aware that their harassing behaviour is unlawful and that there could be consequences to them should the continue. The key is understanding online harassment, how it works and how to best handle each of the situations.
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